Disappointment and Joy


Weeping may stay all night, but by morning, joy (Psalm 40:5b, Common English Bible).

I am an Astros fan. I always have been an Astros fan. Short of some stunt like the Oilers pulled several years ago when they moved to Tennessee, I can’t imagine that there will be a day that I am not an Astros fan. The Astros were an expansion team in 1962. I was four years old. Though I don’t remember it, my parents told me I had been to a game at the old Colt Stadium before the Astrodome was built.

Over the years I have seen good teams and bad teams. I have seen some wins along the way as well as some losses. In 2005 I was ecstatic when the Astros went to their first World Series after 43 years. I was very disappointed after they were swept by the White Sox.

This year brought new excitement when the Astros returned to the World Series. Last night was another bout with disappointment. Leading the series 2-1, the Astros fell in the late innings and lost 6-2. I am not surprised. There are really good reasons both teams are here. Of course, I wanted the Astros to win. I always want the Astros to win. Even when the Astros aren’t in the game, I want the Astros to win. And, in the Houston metro area, after so many years of futility, it is wonderful to see our team this close.

It also makes every loss even more disappointing for fans. I have to remind myself every so often that it is just a game. My life will not change, win or lose. Yes, I want them to win. But in the end, it is just a game.

After watching the game I sat down to write this post. Having a few days between blog series, I was thinking about what I wanted to say. It occurred to me that we all, whether we are Astros fans or not, face disappointment in life. But, when it is all said and done, what do I have to be disappointed about? It is just a game.

I have a great family and awesome friends. I am regularly surrounded by people who care about me. I have a career I enjoy (well there are a few things every once in a while). I am able to spend time doing many other things that bring joy to my life, wood carving, working with paracord, strumming my guitar, writing music (well, more lyrics than the actual music but I have done both), writing in other ways. My list could get pretty long.

I also live at a time in history where I can watch my favorite teams, baseball, and others, as well as many other things I enjoy. When Major League Baseball began 141 years ago, not only could I not watch a game on television, I couldn’t have even listened to it on the radio. And, while I sat through a disappointing game tonight, I also got to watch two games where I was really happy with the result.

As I think about it tonight, I can take that verse fragment from Psalms very literally. “Weeping may stay all night, but by morning, joy!” Yes, I am disappointed tonight. But tomorrow morning, it is the Lord’s Day. It is Sunday and I get the privilege of preaching to God’s people. As a preacher, I can’t think of many things that bring me more joy. Yes, there is sadness tonight, but joy will come in the morning.

For all of us, there is a reason to celebrate, there is a reason for joy. Remember the words of the psalmist, “This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it (Psalm 118:24, New Revised Standard Version).

So, despite the disappointment, even when our team losses (it is only a game), we have a reason for joy. So, we live out Paul’s words to the Philippians, “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice” (Philippians 4:4, New Revised Standard Version).

Have a blessed (and joyful) day in the Lord.

With Joy and Thankfulness,

Copyright 2017, J. Keith Broyles, All Rights Reserved


Published by drjkbroyles

I love Mike Ashcraft's book, "My One Word." For the past nine years I have participated and encouraged others to participate to in the "My One Word" Challenge. My first word was discipline was my word the first year. Since then my word has been focus, sight, jungle, peace, concentration, serve, genuine and this year is fit. I seek to be fit for my health, my family, my church, my ministries. I seek to be fit in any are of my life where God might point to me. I also have a nickname, "Dr. B." When I was a public high school teacher, Dr. B. is what most of my students called me, at least in my presence. I am still called that by many people though I no longer teach in public schools. I am the author of "Average Joe: With an Extraordinary Story" (available on Amazon). The book fits into the genre of "Biblical Fiction" or "Christian Fiction" and features some of the Bible's lesser known characters. The name of my blog is, "Fork in the Road." Life is filled with forks in the road. It isn't a matter of if we encounter a fork in the road, but when will we and how many will we experience in a lifetime. I love to strum my guitar. I am not a great guitar player but I enjoy it. I also enjoy writing music. I get excited with I feel a new song emerging. I live with my wife Cindy and our little dog, "Bishop" in Lufkin, Texas. I spent the past 30 years as a United Methodist pastor, serving churches all over east and southeast Texas, from just north of Tyler to south of Houston, from the Gulf Coast to east of Madisonville. I currently serve Perritte Memorial UMC in Nacogdoches. I spent one year in the classroom, teaching High School government, economics, psychology, and sociology. Cindy and I have been married for 43 years. We have two grown sons and six grandchildren, three boys and three girls. I enjoy preaching and all it's aspects from research to writing to the actual preaching event. I also love writing, reading. I have dabble in drawing and "painting" with pastels as well as woodworking and woodcarving. My current projects are two ukuleles. I collect, repair and restore guitars too. I play the guitar (badly, but I still do) I also enjoy working with paracord on various projects, mostly prayer ropes I usually give away. I hold an Associate of Applied Science Degree in Business Data Processing, from San Jacinto College in Pasadena, TX, a Bachelor of Science in Political Science with a minor in History from Sam Houston State University in Huntsville, TX, a Master of Divinity from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX and a Doctor of Ministry from Carolina University of Theology. This blog started out as devotional writings. In August of 2020, I made a major change to the blog, switching to a daily theme format. Sunday Sermon-usually my manuscript sermon Miscellaneous Monday-misc. writing, poetry, ministry Tuesday Thoughts-Devotion Wed. with Wesleys-hist. & theol. of early Methodists TED Talk Thursday-Video & appl. in current theology Five for Friday-5 things I've seen & my thoughts Sing-Along Sat. - Usually a new song I have written I write, "Strumming a G-Chord with Dr.B." to get my thoughts onto something permanent. After all, they say, once something is on the internet it never really goes away. Still, I hope you enjoy reading it. Who knows, it might generate a bit of discussion between you and me and anyone else who might make their way here. Seeking the Genuine, Keith Lufkin, Texas August 2020

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