Blessed… On Regret

When Judas, who betrayed Jesus, saw that Jesus was condemned to die, he felt deep regret. He returned the thirty pieces of silver to the chief priests and elders, and said, “I did wrong because I betrayed an innocent man.”

But they said, “What is that to us? That’s your problem.” Judas threw the silver pieces into the temple and left. Then he went and hanged himself.

The chief priests picked up the silver pieces and said, “According to the Law it’s not right to put this money in the treasury. Since it was used to pay for someone’s life, it’s unclean.” So they decided to use it to buy the potter’s field where strangers could be buried. That’s why that field is called “Field of Blood” to this very day. This fulfilled the words of Jeremiah the prophet: And I took the thirty pieces of silver, the price for the one whose price had been set by some of the Israelites, 10 and I gave them for the potter’s field, as the Lord commanded me (Matthew 27:3-10, Common English Bible). 

Mark Twain is credited with saying, “Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.” I have some serious disagreement with Mr. Twain.

I have some serious disagreement with Mr. Twain. Are there things I wish I had done in life that I didn’t do? Sure there are. Are there things I didn’t do and did something else in its place and now think, with hindsight, “I should have made a different decision?” Absolutely. Are there times when I settled for indecision or no action rather than doing something that could help move things forward? Without question.

All that being said, there are other things in my life, things I have done or things I have said where I have made some pretty serious errors, some bad lapses in judgment that I have come to regret far more than the things I didn’t do and now, again with the benefit of hindsight wish I had done differently.

As I talk with people who tend to live by the Mark Twain quote, most of the time, as they tell me about it, it is either a poor moral choice they wish they had made instead of doing the right thing or they truly believed they were making the right decision and now really wish they had gone the other direction. And, the very first verse of our lesson has Judas regretting this thing he did do, far more than he regretted anything he did do.

I found that wallet full of money. No one would have known had I just kept it for myself. Instead, after finding the man’s ID in his wallet I was able to track down a telephone number and told him I had found his wallet and then returned the wallet to him. No one would have known. I should have kept in there was money in there.

That is just one example. There could be more. We act like those things don’t matter, but they do.

Our lesson is the conclusion of an earlier story (Matthew 26:14-16) where Judas makes the decision to betray Jesus for 30 pieces of silver. Things weren’t working out the way Judas wanted. He thought Jesus should throw out the Romans, set himself up as a new ruler and then set the disciples up to get rich on all of it. When that wasn’t happening, 30 pieces of silver, in return for turning Jesus in, seemed like a pretty good deal.

The deal was no more than done when regret enters the picture and it does so in the form that is totally opposite of the Mark Twain quote above. It seems to me that such is the case for us, more often than not.

Have a blessed day in the Lord.

Joy and Thankfulness,

Copyright 2017, J. Keith Broyles, All Rights Reserved

Published by drjkbroyles

I love Mike Ashcraft's book, "My One Word." For the past nine years I have participated and encouraged others to participate to in the "My One Word" Challenge. My first word was discipline was my word the first year. Since then my word has been focus, sight, jungle, peace, concentration, serve, genuine and this year is fit. I seek to be fit for my health, my family, my church, my ministries. I seek to be fit in any are of my life where God might point to me. I also have a nickname, "Dr. B." When I was a public high school teacher, Dr. B. is what most of my students called me, at least in my presence. I am still called that by many people though I no longer teach in public schools. I am the author of "Average Joe: With an Extraordinary Story" (available on Amazon). The book fits into the genre of "Biblical Fiction" or "Christian Fiction" and features some of the Bible's lesser known characters. The name of my blog is, "Fork in the Road." Life is filled with forks in the road. It isn't a matter of if we encounter a fork in the road, but when will we and how many will we experience in a lifetime. I love to strum my guitar. I am not a great guitar player but I enjoy it. I also enjoy writing music. I get excited with I feel a new song emerging. I live with my wife Cindy and our little dog, "Bishop" in Lufkin, Texas. I spent the past 30 years as a United Methodist pastor, serving churches all over east and southeast Texas, from just north of Tyler to south of Houston, from the Gulf Coast to east of Madisonville. I currently serve Perritte Memorial UMC in Nacogdoches. I spent one year in the classroom, teaching High School government, economics, psychology, and sociology. Cindy and I have been married for 43 years. We have two grown sons and six grandchildren, three boys and three girls. I enjoy preaching and all it's aspects from research to writing to the actual preaching event. I also love writing, reading. I have dabble in drawing and "painting" with pastels as well as woodworking and woodcarving. My current projects are two ukuleles. I collect, repair and restore guitars too. I play the guitar (badly, but I still do) I also enjoy working with paracord on various projects, mostly prayer ropes I usually give away. I hold an Associate of Applied Science Degree in Business Data Processing, from San Jacinto College in Pasadena, TX, a Bachelor of Science in Political Science with a minor in History from Sam Houston State University in Huntsville, TX, a Master of Divinity from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX and a Doctor of Ministry from Carolina University of Theology. This blog started out as devotional writings. In August of 2020, I made a major change to the blog, switching to a daily theme format. Sunday Sermon-usually my manuscript sermon Miscellaneous Monday-misc. writing, poetry, ministry Tuesday Thoughts-Devotion Wed. with Wesleys-hist. & theol. of early Methodists TED Talk Thursday-Video & appl. in current theology Five for Friday-5 things I've seen & my thoughts Sing-Along Sat. - Usually a new song I have written I write, "Strumming a G-Chord with Dr.B." to get my thoughts onto something permanent. After all, they say, once something is on the internet it never really goes away. Still, I hope you enjoy reading it. Who knows, it might generate a bit of discussion between you and me and anyone else who might make their way here. Seeking the Genuine, Keith Lufkin, Texas August 2020

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