Blessed… Of Splinters and Logs

“Don’t judge, so that you won’t be judged. You’ll receive the same judgment you give. Whatever you deal out will be dealt out to you. Why do you see the splinter that’s in your brother’s or sister’s eye, but don’t notice the log in your own eye? How can you say to your brother or sister, ‘Let me take the splinter out of your eye,’ when there’s a log in your eye? You deceive yourself! First take the log out of your eye, and then you’ll see clearly to take the splinter out of your brother’s or sister’s eye. Don’t give holy things to dogs, and don’t throw your pearls in front of pigs. They will stomp on the pearls, then turn around and attack you” (Matthew 7:1-6, Common English Bible).

Just before starting to write this post, I finished John Ortberg’s latest book, Soul Keeping. It is a really good book that I highly recommend, but I digress. I needed to finish the book because my Bible study groups start a study of the book later this week.

Earlier in the day I was thinking about a person from my past who was always negative. Have you ever known a person like that? I think most all of us have. As I was making my way through Soul Keeping I heard that still small voice say to me, “Keith, you can get pretty negative sometimes too.”

As I sat and considered those words, I thought of an event that happened earlier in the day, in fact it was one of the first things that happened after arriving at the church. One of my church members came into my office. I really don’t remember what she said, but I immediately started complaining about how much I have on my plate this week. There is the Ash Wednesday sermon, a new Bible study with two different groups, my Sunday school class is starting a new study this week and there is also Sunday’s sermon that I haven’t even started yet. I had two computer stations that needed to be set up. And, that doesn’t even begin to mention the regular things that happen each week, people stopping by to visit, hospital calls etc. etc. etc.

The writing of the above paragraph is not meant to be negative, it is what I was venting to my church member when she came into my office this morning. To her credit, she took it all in stride and asked if there was anything she could do to help. God bless her. She is a wonderful Christian lady who sincerely wanted to help her pastor.

That incident came back to my mind as I was absorbing Ortberg’s book. Then he got to a section where he talked about being thankful. He specifically said that the soul needs to be thankful, that it is wired to be thankful.

I thought to myself, “Instead of silently judging the negative person in my life, I need to be thankful for what that person brings and equally important, to be thankful for what I have.” When I do that, I think the splinter in their eye becomes less noticeable to me and hopefully I at least begin to remove the log that is in my own eye.

I hate to admit that too often I do pass judgment on people around me. And, I realize that is something I really need to change. But Ortberg points out in the book that our good intentions and our will power will not hold up on their own. He said, “Sin eats will power for breakfast.” I need something more.

Late in the book Ortberg suggests a small exercise that I am going to try to turn into a Lenten project. I had been trying to think of what I would do for Lent this year and nothing particularly appealed to me until I heard this. My goal is to live thankfully and express that thankfulness to those around me. When I start to judge or when I start to become negative, I pray I will realize it and instead of being negative or judging others, I will tell them why I am thankful. Ortberg argues in the book that such an action actually feeds our souls. Right now I am very thankful for Soul Keeping.

Wednesday begins the exercise. Who am I kidding. This doesn’t need to depend on a calendar. It starts now.

Anyone want to join me?

Have a blessed day in the Lord.

Joy and Peace and THANKFULNESS!!!!
Keith

Copyright 2017, J. Keith Broyles, All Rights Reserved

Published by drjkbroyles

I love Mike Ashcraft's book, "My One Word." For the past nine years I have participated and encouraged others to participate to in the "My One Word" Challenge. My first word was discipline was my word the first year. Since then my word has been focus, sight, jungle, peace, concentration, serve, genuine and this year is fit. I seek to be fit for my health, my family, my church, my ministries. I seek to be fit in any are of my life where God might point to me. I also have a nickname, "Dr. B." When I was a public high school teacher, Dr. B. is what most of my students called me, at least in my presence. I am still called that by many people though I no longer teach in public schools. I am the author of "Average Joe: With an Extraordinary Story" (available on Amazon). The book fits into the genre of "Biblical Fiction" or "Christian Fiction" and features some of the Bible's lesser known characters. The name of my blog is, "Fork in the Road." Life is filled with forks in the road. It isn't a matter of if we encounter a fork in the road, but when will we and how many will we experience in a lifetime. I love to strum my guitar. I am not a great guitar player but I enjoy it. I also enjoy writing music. I get excited with I feel a new song emerging. I live with my wife Cindy and our little dog, "Bishop" in Lufkin, Texas. I spent the past 30 years as a United Methodist pastor, serving churches all over east and southeast Texas, from just north of Tyler to south of Houston, from the Gulf Coast to east of Madisonville. I currently serve Perritte Memorial UMC in Nacogdoches. I spent one year in the classroom, teaching High School government, economics, psychology, and sociology. Cindy and I have been married for 43 years. We have two grown sons and six grandchildren, three boys and three girls. I enjoy preaching and all it's aspects from research to writing to the actual preaching event. I also love writing, reading. I have dabble in drawing and "painting" with pastels as well as woodworking and woodcarving. My current projects are two ukuleles. I collect, repair and restore guitars too. I play the guitar (badly, but I still do) I also enjoy working with paracord on various projects, mostly prayer ropes I usually give away. I hold an Associate of Applied Science Degree in Business Data Processing, from San Jacinto College in Pasadena, TX, a Bachelor of Science in Political Science with a minor in History from Sam Houston State University in Huntsville, TX, a Master of Divinity from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX and a Doctor of Ministry from Carolina University of Theology. This blog started out as devotional writings. In August of 2020, I made a major change to the blog, switching to a daily theme format. Sunday Sermon-usually my manuscript sermon Miscellaneous Monday-misc. writing, poetry, ministry Tuesday Thoughts-Devotion Wed. with Wesleys-hist. & theol. of early Methodists TED Talk Thursday-Video & appl. in current theology Five for Friday-5 things I've seen & my thoughts Sing-Along Sat. - Usually a new song I have written I write, "Strumming a G-Chord with Dr.B." to get my thoughts onto something permanent. After all, they say, once something is on the internet it never really goes away. Still, I hope you enjoy reading it. Who knows, it might generate a bit of discussion between you and me and anyone else who might make their way here. Seeking the Genuine, Keith Lufkin, Texas August 2020

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