Pass the… Chocolate Cake

But the Lord’s faithful love is from forever ago to forever from now for those who honor him. And God’s righteousness reaches to the grandchildren (Psalm 103:17, Common English Bible).

This is part 27 in the November Thanksgiving series, “Pass the…” for a listing on the other posts please see the index.

OK, I confess, cake is not one of my downfalls. I have many downfalls, but cake is not generally one of them. I don’t necessarily dislike cake, it just isn’t something I generally get real excited about either.

That being said, one of my downfalls is my mother-in-law’s chocolate cake. Well, more specifically the chocolate icing on my mother-in-law’s chocolate cake. The cake itself, it’s chocolate cake but the icing, she adds something to it. I’m not sure if its a longtime family secret of not, but I like being part of that family so I won’t disclose the ingredient on this thread, and no, it isn’t alcohol. But, when my mother-in-law makes that cake, my blood sugar jumps 50 points just hearing about it.

I am not the only one who loves her chocolate cake. Of course my wife loves her mother’s chocolate cake. When Cindy makes a chocolate cake she follows her mother’s icing recipe to the letter. There are others too.

Several years ago we were at a family gathering with a lot of extended family, it was the birthday of Cindy’s paternal grandfather. There was a store bought and decorated cake there. And, there were several people who took a share or two. I was not one of them. Neither was one of Cindy’s uncles. I heard Ricky say words to the effect, “If I am going to give up calories on a piece of cake it won’t be for that store bought cake, it will be for that chocolate cake.” I concur.

As I think of my, now more than 40 years with Cindy’s family as either a guy who came around dating their daughter or the almost 40 years as a married-in member of the family, I cannot recall my mother-in-law making that cake unless it was for a family gathering. But, you also have to understand, Cindy’s family is huge. Cindy’s mother had four siblings. Cindy’s father had three siblings. Each had multiple children and Cindy is one of four children in her immediate family and all of them have at least two kids and the biggest number of them have multiple grandkids. All that is to say, it doesn’t take much to have a family gathering around there. And when a family gathering happened, far more often than not, that divine chocolate cake make its way onto the table.

That alone makes me thankful for family. If it weren’t for those family gatherings I might never have tried one of the best chocolate cakes in the world! When I see chocolate cake, I am thankful for family.

Especially since becoming a pastor, I have also learned that many of us have family members who really aren’t family at all. I have found another chocolate cake that is up there with my mother-in-law’s cake. It is a person who is part of the Sweeny church family. Again, I think it is the icing that makes the cake. Out of self-preservation I will refrain from whose I think is best. On the one hand I still have to be pastor for one person while on the other, I still have to be part of Cindy’s family. There is no way to win in that situation.

But regardless of whether it is at church or with my family or walking through the line at Luby’s (and no, I don’t eat the chocolate cake there), when I see chocolate cake I think of family and I am immediately grateful.

I don’t know how far back the family recipe for either of these chocolate cakes go back. But, knowing it could be a good long while, I am also reminded of our lesson for today, from forever ago to forever from now, God’s faithful love is for those who honor him. I am blessed with a wonderful church family. I am even more blessed with a believing, worshiping family in both my in-laws and in my own family. As long as I can remember, my parents were active parts of church life. My sister and her husband are as well. When I married I fell into the same kind of family. It is the way I tried to raise my own kids and I know my sister and Cindy’s siblings worked to do the same. All that reminds me that God will continue to bless our families, all faithful families, through the grandkids and beyond. For that, I am thankful. I am thankful for chocolate cake because it reminds how blessed I am in my family and at church

So pass me a hunk of chocolate cake. I have come to know, that is some pretty good stuff.

Have a blessed day in the Lord.

Joy and Peace,

Copyright 2016, J. Keith Broyles, All Rights Reserved.

Published by drjkbroyles

I love Mike Ashcraft's book, "My One Word." For the past nine years I have participated and encouraged others to participate to in the "My One Word" Challenge. My first word was discipline was my word the first year. Since then my word has been focus, sight, jungle, peace, concentration, serve, genuine and this year is fit. I seek to be fit for my health, my family, my church, my ministries. I seek to be fit in any are of my life where God might point to me. I also have a nickname, "Dr. B." When I was a public high school teacher, Dr. B. is what most of my students called me, at least in my presence. I am still called that by many people though I no longer teach in public schools. I am the author of "Average Joe: With an Extraordinary Story" (available on Amazon). The book fits into the genre of "Biblical Fiction" or "Christian Fiction" and features some of the Bible's lesser known characters. The name of my blog is, "Fork in the Road." Life is filled with forks in the road. It isn't a matter of if we encounter a fork in the road, but when will we and how many will we experience in a lifetime. I love to strum my guitar. I am not a great guitar player but I enjoy it. I also enjoy writing music. I get excited with I feel a new song emerging. I live with my wife Cindy and our little dog, "Bishop" in Lufkin, Texas. I spent the past 30 years as a United Methodist pastor, serving churches all over east and southeast Texas, from just north of Tyler to south of Houston, from the Gulf Coast to east of Madisonville. I currently serve Perritte Memorial UMC in Nacogdoches. I spent one year in the classroom, teaching High School government, economics, psychology, and sociology. Cindy and I have been married for 43 years. We have two grown sons and six grandchildren, three boys and three girls. I enjoy preaching and all it's aspects from research to writing to the actual preaching event. I also love writing, reading. I have dabble in drawing and "painting" with pastels as well as woodworking and woodcarving. My current projects are two ukuleles. I collect, repair and restore guitars too. I play the guitar (badly, but I still do) I also enjoy working with paracord on various projects, mostly prayer ropes I usually give away. I hold an Associate of Applied Science Degree in Business Data Processing, from San Jacinto College in Pasadena, TX, a Bachelor of Science in Political Science with a minor in History from Sam Houston State University in Huntsville, TX, a Master of Divinity from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX and a Doctor of Ministry from Carolina University of Theology. This blog started out as devotional writings. In August of 2020, I made a major change to the blog, switching to a daily theme format. Sunday Sermon-usually my manuscript sermon Miscellaneous Monday-misc. writing, poetry, ministry Tuesday Thoughts-Devotion Wed. with Wesleys-hist. & theol. of early Methodists TED Talk Thursday-Video & appl. in current theology Five for Friday-5 things I've seen & my thoughts Sing-Along Sat. - Usually a new song I have written I write, "Strumming a G-Chord with Dr.B." to get my thoughts onto something permanent. After all, they say, once something is on the internet it never really goes away. Still, I hope you enjoy reading it. Who knows, it might generate a bit of discussion between you and me and anyone else who might make their way here. Seeking the Genuine, Keith Lufkin, Texas August 2020

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